Iaomai Farms

Pastoral Care and Christian Counseling

Pastoral Counseling

Welcome to Iaomai Farms! We (Aimee and Brian) are Pastoral Care Chaplains offering Christian-based pastoral counseling. We both are ordained ministers with graduate level theological education, professional chaplaincy training in hospital and military settings, experience with a variety of helping models, and more than twenty years of experience caring for people.

We emphasize care for pastors and their families. Too few ministers have relationships where it’s okay for them to not be okay. We provide that space and care.

We also provide Christian counseling and coaching for those who are not ministers. This includes marriage and premarital counseling, grief, depression, anxiety, child-loss, life transitions, and personal growth. We offer sabbatical planning and sabbatical support. We also provide discipleship and spiritual formation coaching. Whether you are seeking care for a specific situation or feeling in a rut in your relationship with God and not sure what to do, we are glad to come alongside you in your journey of healing and growth.

  • Pastor, so often you and your family are surrounded by people you love and care for, but have few people truly caring for you. We are happy to come alongside you, giving space for you to be human, wrestle with God and life, and be in a place to receive care rather than expected to care for all others. This support might be relationship counseling; compassion fatigue, burnout, depression, loneliness, or anxiety; grief support; continued spiritual and personal growth coaching; sabbatical planning and support; or other needs you might be unsure of where you can honestly, safely go for support.

  • Are you in a situaton where you want help, want to believe God can be at work in your life, but you keep hitting a wall? Deeply rooted in Scripture and prayer, trained in a variety of therapeutic models, we integrate Christian theological realities and practice as we engage life challenges. Areas we support include pre-marital and marital counseling; anxiety, depression, and loneliness; grief and trauma; life, relationship, and career transitions; church hurt and broken trust with faith communities; feeling stagnant, stuck, or derailed in your Christian journey; and discerning God’s plan and leading in your life. If there’s a situation weighing heavily on you, we are happy to see how we may come alongside you in your journey.

  • Have you been a Christan for years but look back and feel like you haven’t really grown much for a while? Do you struggle to integrate your faith with your relationships, work, and other aspects of daily life? Do you sense there must be more to your Christian walk than church on Sunday, reading your Bible, praying, and maybe volunteering, but are unsure of how to move beyond that? We can come alongside and provide personalized coaching to help your spiritual growth go from what it has been to a richer, maturing walk with Christ.

  • Are you sensing God’s invitation to a season of rest, renewal, restoration, and healing? Sabbaticals are not an extended vaction—though they certainly may include a vacation as part of the plan! Rather, sabbaticals are a set period where you receive God’s invitation to invest in you and your family. This can include intentional rest, counseling, fun and recreation, hobbies, implementing new spiritual disciplines, and other activities that God may use to restore your soul and transition you to a fresh, new season. We come alongside and assist with discerning your needs and developing your sabbatical plan with its different components. While on your sabbatical, we offer ongoing support with calls and pastoral care needs.

What is pastoral counseling?

Pastoral counseling is different from professional counseling provided by a licensed counselor (LPC, LFMT, or LCSW). Most professional counselors are trained in a wide variety of helping theories or approaches, rooted in scientific study based on measurable outcomes. This can be very helpful but does not attend to the spiritual component of people.

Rather than leaning primarily on the psychological helping models (ie, cognitive behavior therapy, emotion-focused therapy, family systems, etc), we lean on the Holy Spirit, attending to His role and work in our lives. Pastoral counseling varies widely based on the pastor providing it: their personal and ministerial experiences, theological leanings, professional or formal training, approaches to discipleship, and other influences from their church background.

Here at Iaomai Farms, as Pastoral Care Chaplains we begin with the awareness of God being present with us. He has meaning, purpose, healing, and growth for every person. We integrate Biblical, theological realities with a person’s life experiences—the joys, travails, and everything in between—to facilitate the hope and restoration God has for each person.

Two special emphases we share…

While we offer support to people of all walks of life, we have a special emphasis of caring for clergy and their family members. So many ministers throughout our society devote their lives to caring for others…but few are truly cared for. There are exceptions to the rule, but many ministers work longer hours, have lower wages and benefits, live daily with high and unreasonable societal expectations on them and their families, and many other stressors most people do not routinely experience. We have experienced this loneliness and hurt in some seasons. We also have also been blessed with fellow ministers’ kindness and compassion in other seasons of our own lives. We love coming alongside fellow workers in God’s kingdom and getting to be a small slice of God’s loving-kindness in their lives.

Having walked through traumatic loss, we also care deeply for those walking roads of grief and deep hurt. People seldom walk the exact same road as someone else, but we often have experiences that result in similar wounds and pain. While someone does not have to experience something to be of help to another person, there is a special connection and encouragement from someone who has walked a similar road. In our own journey, we have been uniquely comforted by others who have also lost children to unexpected deaths and miscarriages. We have wrestled with grief and encountered God in those dark places and especially have a heart for walking with others on that same hard road.

We offer 50-minute pastoral counseling sessions for individuals and couples. As we do not accept insurance but desire to make this service available to more people, we offer sessions for $80. This is about half the rate normally charged in our region and we wish for support to be more widely accessible. The fee is the same whether the session is with an individual or couple. If you wish to meet with both Aimee and Brian in the same session, the fee is $150. Spiritual formation coaching and sabbatical planning services are $60/session. All services are available to clergy and their spouses at $40/session.

We primarily meet virtually. For those wishing to meet in-person, we can meet at a public location of your choice in the greater Killeen-Temple-Georgetown area. For those who have met with us several times and wish to enjoy the quiet of the country setting, we offer the option of meeting at our farm where they can enjoy porch sitting, wooded trails, and the company of miniature cows and miniature goats—surrounded by God’s creation as we work with Him on navigating life’s challenges.

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Please call or e-mail us to schedule an appointment. Interested but not sure if what we offer is the right fit? We can do a free consult to discuss your situation and what to expect working with us.